[ ] Initially, as a teenager, your career dreams hit a cruel reality when you discover that your talents and aptitudes are limited by nature, not by choice. You probably had all the commitment it took to be a rock star…but none of the talent.
That’s a harsh, if commonplace realization. You tend – especially as an adolescent – to imagine yourself as the protagonist in a heroic narrative, and it can be crushing to realize you are limited by banal realities like being too short to be a basketball star, or singing too out of tune to be the next Beyonce.
Once this life lesson is learned, though, you think you’ve found your groove. You’ll just find something you’re good at, and do it.
Unfortunately, that’s when you hit yet another realization.
Even if you have the talent and aptitude for a certain job – you also have to “be” that job. It has to represent who you are.
That’s why you have to know who you are before you can know what you want to do. [ ]